<h1 class="post-title entry-title" style="text-align: center;">Social Status Is Not That Important</h1>
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<p>In an egalitarian society, social status is much less necessary to bed women because they are in the same social class as men. It's not a matter of survival anymore for women to chase after high-status men because the class system is much more equal. So women who chase after high-status men are essentially going for bragging rights. By going through the effort of displaying higher value to lure women, you are in a manner of speaking soliciting prostitutes. But instead of paying for sex with money, you are using status or the promise of it. In fact, a woman does not have significantly more attraction for a man with high status than a man who is simply willing to pay her for sex.</p>
<h2>The Egalitarian Reality: Why Survival Status No Longer Matters</h2>
<p>The only potential advantage of having high status is that it can be a cue that you might have certain attractive traits worth checking out—for example, strength of character. But by itself, social status means little in terms of generating attraction. By playing the value game, you are basically orchestrating situations where women are most likely to prostitute themselves for purposes of gaining status at least in your eyes. So what happens when she gets the status validation, or the status runs out? The same thing that happens when a ho gets the money... next. So by using seduction techniques such as The Mystery Method, you are trying to replicate social conditions which are now obsolete. The current social reality does not support the bubble you have created. It will eventually burst, which means you will have to constantly blow new bubbles to keep yourself in the loop.</p>
<p>Understanding <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/how-to-be-what-women-want/" rel="dofollow">how to be what women want</a> reveals a fundamental truth: women are attracted to the experience a man creates and the character he demonstrates, not to the external trappings of status. When you stop trying to impress through status symbols and instead focus on being genuinely engaging, you naturally attract women who value you for who you are, not what you can offer them socially.</p>
<h2>The Hypergamy Trap: When Status-Seeking Becomes Self-Delusion</h2>
<p>The tendency for <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Sweden-dating-service.html?page=10">women to seek out dating with men</a> of greater social status and resources than themselves is called hypergamy. The evolutionary reason sometimes given for this is that by doing so a woman has a better chance of providing better resources for herself and her offspring, so biologically speaking such men tend to be perceived as more attractive. I can see this being more justified for poor women who would truly benefit from, say, marrying someone wealthier and of greater status than them. But for otherwise well-off women marrying up is mostly a way to boost their self-image and has less to do with evolution at work, since their resources alone would be sufficient for herself and her offspring.</p>
<p>But since modern western women are obsessed with gaining social status, they tend to go after men who have more social status than them, because this is a good way for them to gain even more social status or at least not lower their own status. Marrying someone of lower or even equal social status gets them nowhere socially, and is basically boring and uninteresting for most modern western women. But some people pedestalize this by saying that higher social status makes a man more attractive, and lower social status makes a man less attractive, thereby giving a pseudo-evolutionary-psychology reason why women are justified to marry up.</p>
<p>I do think it can aid a man's attractiveness a bit to have high social status, but the main bait at work here is that it offers females the opportunity to boost their own social status by being with him, which is why such a man will tend to attract lots of women. But attracting lots of women does not necessarily mean you are very attractive, if being in your company offers a social benefit women wouldn't otherwise have. By analogy, offering women money for sex has the same effect and will still attract women to you, but the reason for this is at least out in the open. Learning from <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/the-total-package-that-drives-women-wild/" rel="dofollow">the total package that drives women wild</a> shows us that real attraction comes from a man who has purpose, direction, and strength of character—not from someone trying to display status. The man who has his life together, who pursues his goals with passion, and who radiates genuine confidence attracts women effortlessly because his value is intrinsic, not borrowed from external status.</p>
<h2>Character Over Status: What Really Drives Lasting Attraction</h2>
<p>Although it is indeed true that women have an instinctive preference for men who have more resources and/or status than them, or at least personality markers associated with it, it is not clear whether this is due to a self-preservation instinct consciously acted out in order to increase their chances of survival and that of their offspring, or because such men are more attractive and attraction is not a conscious choice. I'm betting it's a mix of both, and a culture can either amplify this tendency or moderate it so that it's at a reasonable level. However, western culture tends to amplify this tendency in women, and consequently creates monstrous, highly entitled women who feel they deserve it all.</p>
<p>The same way that people are naturally wired for craving sugar, salt, and fat—these things can be harmful in excessive amounts—because they are evolutionary hot buttons, it is readily exploited by marketing efforts, and as a result people can easily be lured in by it and engage in unhealthy levels of consumption. However, women can consciously choose <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-Kingdom-dating-service.html?page=6">short-term dating with men</a> they find attractive who have little or no resources to give them, because in this case getting resources is not necessary. The most important thing to conclude from this is that women can make conscious choices just like men to value certain things more than others based on the circumstances.</p>
<p>So once again I say that social status is not that important in an egalitarian society because: (1) Women have just as much access to resources as men, so they don't need men to improve their chances of survival and that of their offspring, and (2) Having strength of character at least partly satisfies the remaining reason why women seek men of status—because it's more attractive, even if you don't have the actual high social status to go with it. Understanding <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/ten-types-of-men-to-avoid/" rel="dofollow">ten types of men to avoid</a> teaches us that status without substance is a red flag. Women instinctively avoid men who are all talk and no character, and those who claim great things without demonstrating real integrity. True attractiveness compounds when it's built on authenticity and genuine strength.</p>
<h2>The Low-Maintenance Strategy: Authenticity Versus The Value Game</h2>
<p>Having high social status and lots of money is most important if you want to have a chance with the most spoiled, entitled women who want it all and who are obsessed with gaining social status and living a life of luxury. In that case, I say welcome to hell. You'll be constantly competing with other high-status men, constantly proving your worth, and constantly under pressure to maintain your status. It's an exhausting game with no winners.</p>
<p>The best low-maintenance strategy to bed women is to make it all about sex. Don't offer or imply any side benefits for having sex with you. This way, all she will want from you is sex and hopefully your company too. She won't be looking for your money because you've established that you're not offering it. She won't be looking for status validation because you've made it clear that's not the foundation of what you're offering. She'll simply be with you because she genuinely wants to be around you.</p>
<p>This approach filters out the women who are only interested in using you as a stepping stone. It attracts women who value connection, attraction, and genuine human interaction. These women are far less entitled, far more appreciative, and far easier to be with long-term. You're no longer playing a game where you're always trying to prove something. You're simply being yourself—and that authenticity is far more attractive than any status symbol ever could be.</p>